As co-parents, you only want what is best for your children. This includes the amount of time each parent spends with them. Since Arkansas favors joint custody, creating a plan that advocates for equal parenting time can be a good starting point. But how do you make that work in daily life?
Types of parenting plans
Parenting plans often come with 50/50 schedules to ensure a child spends equal time with both. Here are the common examples to give you an idea of what you can use:
- Alternating weeks: The children spend one week with one parent and the next with the other.
- 2 weeks each: The children spend two weeks with one parent, then the next with the other.
- 2-2-3 schedule: The children spend alternating two-day blocks with each parent, followed by a three-day weekend that swaps every other week.
- 3-4-4-3 schedule: The children spend a three-day and a four-day block with one parent, then reverse those durations the following week.
Effective plans must also integrate contingencies for special events, such as academic breaks, holidays and birthdays.
Pros and cons of parenting schedules
While balanced schedules promote fairness, they can be impractical for some families. One parent may feel marginalized. Furthermore, children can have a hard time adjusting to the constant shuttling of homes.
If a 50/50 schedule may not be feasible, consider exploring customized plans with your co-parent. This accounts for unique work shifts, extracurriculars and other considerations that can lessen the negative impact of divorce on children.
Modifying the order when life changes
Life can be unpredictable, as events occur without notice. Under Arkansas law, you can request a modification if there is a material change in circumstances. These can include a job relocation or a child’s changing school needs. Conversely, subjective grievances, such as conflicting parenting styles, generally do not meet the legal threshold for a modification.
If you feel overwhelmed by the process of creating a parenting plan, seeking help from a divorce attorney can be a valuable resource. Their advice can guide you and your co-parent to find a schedule that works for both parties and the children.